False Advertising

After my last post I had numerous debates with people about whether it was right to cheat just because someone is boring. Some people thought that I was saying that if a girl doesn't do whatever a guy wants then she deserves to get cheated on which is definitely not the case.

Firstly, let me make this perfectly clear. I am NOT saying that if a guy asks a girl to do some freaky sex act and she declines that this gives him the right to cheat or that she should expect it to happen. My point was that if a girl is open minded enough to try certain things and then gets judged for it, I would just have a little think about my sex life because it's not normally the people in sexually satisfying relationships that break up because of infidelities.

This does however, bring me to my next point, and main focus of this post. This issue surrounding girls being sexually adventurous, or guys for that matter, or a lack thereof is only an issue when there is some kind of false advertising.

To share or not to share?

What is it that makes the way guys and girls view sexual exploits so different? It's one of the things that baffles me most about the fairer sex.

On the one hand, say to a girl that if she has a few one night stands she's a slut and you'll get told that it's double standards and that girls should be allowed to do whatever, or more aptly, whoever, they feel like. And fuck yeah they should! So why is it that on the other hand when a girl does something sexually adventurous like have a threesome, foursome or even a full blown orgy, other girls will call her a slut and act like she's got loose morals?

The intro.

So me and my girlfriend are sitting on her bed watching Bad Boys 2 back in '09 and Marcus Burnett (Martin Lawrence if ya don't know) tells Mike Lowry (Will Smith...if you don't know where the fuck you been!?) that he's 'like a dog with that pink thing hanging out.' Now my lovely lady gets this idea that all the deviant male behaviour that she's witnessed throughout her dating life can be attributed to this pink thing. So we decided to write a book about all the crazy stuff we observed while at uni and beyond from the perspective of the two different sexes....hence The Pink Theory was born.

Which brings me to this blog. Seeing as we're still in the process of finishing the book before we get it published, coupled with the fact that crazy shit seems to happen in my life all the time that warrants talking about, I figured the web is the place to put it all out there. It's going to be new material that isn't in the book, as well as snippets from the book.

So like I said in the description...this is not about fairytales. This is about truth. Ugly, naked and in your face. It's not about making friends. It's not about convincing people that the good guy always ends up with the girl and whatever other hollywood bullshit is out there. It's also not about saying that the bad guy always wins. This is real life. In all it's fucked up glory.

I hope you enjoy my take on things. If not, i'm sure your prince will be along to kiss you shortly and take you away to your castle made of rainbows and sunshine ;-)